Over the past few weeks of dealing with my M/c I have discovered that there are people that ask you how you are and are just being polite and really don't care what your answer is and are basically walking away before you can get your answer out. There are also the people that when they ask and your answer is not positive, happy and excitement then there must be something wrong with you and because your a Christian there must be really something wrong with you. And I am not saying that every single person that asks me how I am doing I spill it all, but as hard as it is sometimes to be real and honest and I would love right now to say that I am joyful and happy etc but that would not be the truth. People it seems do not want to deal with the non happy or non joyful because then they feel that they have to do something or fix it or something.
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