Hi, i'm new to this site, I just lost my baby on Nov. 1st, i guess its called a missed m/c as the baby had stopped developing a few weeks prior. I had a d&c friday morning, but had woken up to excruciating lower back pain which my dr. thought was related to cramping. Now, several days later, i still have severe back pain, along with constipation and painful urination (not a bladder infection- i went yesterday for a test which was neg)and just a heavy feeling in my pelvic area. Has anybody else gone thru this? It just seems so unfair that I have to go thru all this physical pain as well as the emotional pain of losing a baby.