today my mom called to see how I was doing. I told her I have been crying alot and I am still very devastated since I lost Clair (at 7 months pretnant). The only comments I got from her was "Look on the bright side, you have 5 other kids at home", "You didnt really need to have another child anyway", "It's not like the pregnancy was planned". She made me so mad I hung up on her. I have one child of my own and 4 step children, This was me and my husbands first child together. We love and miss her so much. I cant believe my mom, my own mother, thinks that and really cant believe she said that to me. She should have kept her comments to herself or not have called at all.
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