Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
This month would of been Alex's birth month, Instead of being excited and feeling her inside me i have nothing. To make matters worse we tried again last month and i was 5 days late and getting really positive that something good was going to happen. Thursday i got my period. Just an hour after my baby sister (25) announced her 5th pregnancy!. I'm 10 years older and i cant even do the most natural thing in the world after 5 years of trying.
I felt very low thursday and made a comment to my partner that the world did not seem fair, he then told me he was sick of my self pity and lots of women cant have babies why do i think its only me.
I am now finding it very hard to even bear to speak to him, i should have my baby this month, why can he not see this?
Maybe he's right i will never be a mother, if that's the case i'm not sure what this world is all about!
I know i sound selfish, but i just want to scream and shout, i dont want to be quiet, i want to stop hurting.
I felt very low thursday and made a comment to my partner that the world did not seem fair, he then told me he was sick of my self pity and lots of women cant have babies why do i think its only me.
I am now finding it very hard to even bear to speak to him, i should have my baby this month, why can he not see this?
Maybe he's right i will never be a mother, if that's the case i'm not sure what this world is all about!
I know i sound selfish, but i just want to scream and shout, i dont want to be quiet, i want to stop hurting.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
You are not selfish. I wish your husband could understand how you feel. Most of our husband's have difficulty understanding that.
sometimes the world doesnt seem fair, i think/feel that all the time. i feel a failure that i cant do the most natural thing in the world: make a baby and keep it safe.
your not selfish at all, its only natural to want a baby, sure there are loads of women who cant have babies, but theyre not you!!! what you are feeling is the main thing at this point.
maybe your husband is feeling hard about the time as well, me and my boyfriend keep clashing over silly things and when we eventually stop been stubborna dn talk about what is really causing these hurt feelings deep down, it always seems to be sopmething about missing our babies or feeling hurt, lost, sad about their loss. i dont think i could bear to be around him at times if we didnt talk about things.
good luck i hope everything turns out ok for u xxx