
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I just miscarried three days ago. It is the second time for me. I am in a really sad place since my husband really didn't want a second child in the first place. He is not supporting me at all because he feels that the only thing I want to hear is that we can try again and everything will be better.
Is anyone out there in the same place? I am so amazed by my 20 month old and love being a mom more than anything. I just can't understand why having a second child could be such a bad thing.
Is anyone out there in the same place? I am so amazed by my 20 month old and love being a mom more than anything. I just can't understand why having a second child could be such a bad thing.
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Communicating OFTEN about our needs and where we are with this experience has been very important. Some days we are going in such different directions, but talking about it helps us understand each other better. When we aren't talking, it can get very tense.
I hope you are able to work things out. Good luck!
Now, over a year later, we're not agreeing over whether to have another. His reasons is that he couldn't bear it if "it" happened again. Our odds are that it won't. I feel incomplete and although another baby wouldn't ever replace our daughter, our family will never be perfect. He sees it as we have two kids, let's leave it alone. We are still workingon getting to an agreement on this, but talk to your husband. Grieve this loss as much as you can before trying again. Find a support group that you can go to so you have a safe place to talk about your loss and what feelings you are having. I think they are totally normal, and sometimes having a safe place to talk can do wonders for our soul. I do hope you and your husband can come to an agreement as well. Hugs.
Hang in there though. This could just be his way of dealing with the loss he is feeling. I wish you the best of luck in your healing and future. But you are definitely not alone and my heart hurts for you.