When i got pregnant i had a sister in law that was already 4 mths along she had just married my brother in law so we didn't have much to talk about except our pregnancies.I was at 9 wks.when i lost my baby on 7/1/08 and I tried everything i could after that to avoid her because it always made me feel angry and sad to be around her because of my loss. She had her baby shower a month to the day i lost my baby. I didn't go because i wasn't ready. She delivered her baby a few days ago and i didn't go to the hospital to visit her either i cried that whole day instead because of the sadness i felt for the loss of my baby. I need help about what to do if i have to be around them for family events and in about a month they will be my next door neighbors. I feel bad because i don't want to keep my husband away from his family or offend her but i don't think i could handle being in the same room with them anytime soon while i'm trying to heal.
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