Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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deleted_user 11/30/2007

My little angel was stillborn on November 14. After two and a half years of trying to conceive, I don't yet know how us mothers are supposed to survive this. Every night I relive the day I was told her heart stopped. Im just consumed with nightmares having to face this again and again. I feel like I lost everything, and then this morning my husband announced he doesn't know if he's going to stay with me. I feel like he's the only thing that has gotten me through the last two weeks, so I dont' know what Im sopposed to do if he decides to leave me.

deleted_user 11/30/2007

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son at 32 weeks gestation and it has been the hardest thing I have ever gone through. Please understand that you will survive this.
I am also sorry that you and your husband are having problems. A tragedy like this can really bring on relationship problems. Remember that he is deeply hurting too. Maybe you 2 could go to bereavement counseling together?

deleted_user 11/30/2007

Thank you. It helps to know that other mothers have suffered the same loss and they are making it through. It gives me hope that I will make it down this dark road.

deleted_user 11/30/2007

I'm soo sorry. This can definitaly strain a relationship. It certainly caused problems between my husband and I. I hope that you guys can work through it though. If you need to talk I'm here!

deleted_user 11/30/2007

I am so sorry about your loss. In my experience, my husband and I have been at each other's throats since I lost my son (11/1/07.) I've even threatend to leave him numerous times (for unexplained reasons.) I am just so horomonal, sad, hurt, mad and I just lash out at everyone. Since he's around me the most, he gets it the most.

I did start seeing a therapist and it is helping and things are starting to calm down between my husband and I.

I'm here if you need to talk and again, I'm sorry for your loss.

deleted_user 11/30/2007

Man sweety. I am SO sorry. The pain of your child being gone and now your husband laying that one on you. Pray sweety. I don't know what to say. Don't give up... The grief from your child gets better. It doesn't go away, but you can learn to live happily again with the memory still there.

Hang in there with your husband. Try to be nice. Try to talk rationally to him. and pray.

deleted_user 11/30/2007

Prayer changes things believe me. I lost my 2 babies at 24 weeks, it's been 4 months and the pain does go away or get better. I'm sorry for your husband dropping that bombshell on you. I pray that 2 can find some peace together.

deleted_user 11/30/2007

I am sorry about your baby. I lost my daughter at just over 40 weeks on Oct. 17. I have and am still going through the nightmares and the constant "replays" of what happened in my thoughts everyday. I am sorry I may not have the best advice right now being it's still new but I wanted to let you know if you need to talk at anytime I am here.

deleted_user 11/30/2007

So very, very sorry for your loss. I hope and pray your husband and you will be able to pull together on this. Regardless, we're here for you.

deleted_user 12/01/2007

Sweety,I am so so very sorry for everything.I know its hard very hard.I wish I could say something anything that will take away the pain you feeling but i cant.Just cry.If you need i am here k

deleted_user 12/01/2007

I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my twin boys on Nov 18. I am also sorry that your husband dropped that bomb on you. I would see a counselor (which I am personally doing and have found it very helpful)and see if you can get your DH to go with you. I know this is the most unimaginable pain you can ever go through. I am here if you ever need to talk. I will keep you and your DH in my prayers. I really hope everything works out between the two of you. You need each other now more than ever!!

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