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My angel has taught me a thing or two:

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After all that I have been through since the m/c, I am starting to realize that I will never be the same for many reasons. I am much more aware and sensitive of/to those who have suffered any kind of loss.
I have realized that life really is very short.
I have learned to be greatful for all of the wonderful people/things that I have in my life.
I really do not see a whole lot of importance in the petty things in life anymore.
I have learned what it is like to suffer a great loss, feel real pain, and find strength to get through it.
I have learned patience and how to better tolerate those who are ignorant.
I have realized that without my angel baby, none of these things would be possible.
I have realized that even though I never got to meet my angel, he taught me precious lessons in life.
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I think it is wonderful that you have been able to turn such a negative experience into something so positive...Kudos to you! I think you are on the right track to healing and preparing for whatever the future holds for you and your family. Have a great weekend.
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I know what you mean! Until I miscarried, I took a lot of things in my life for granted. I, too, now realize that life is very short and we need to make the most of EVERY DAY! I have done a lot of soul searching since my loss, and now I have started to wake up each morning not feeling sad for what I don't have in my life, but being grateful that I have a new day ahead of me with many wonderful things to look forward to and wonderful people to share my life with!! I know that not everyone can get to this point, but I have realized that making the most of what I do have (wonderful husband, understanding friends and family) makes my day so much better than sitting around feeling bad about myself. I think this is a great place to be in for when I do finally have the opportunity to get pregnant again and have the family that I so desperately want!! God bless!!
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Isn't it amazing that we can learn so much thru something that is so terrible & heart wrenching? When I got leukemia @18 I learned so much about myself & it made me so much of a stronger person, the loss of my angel has also. It has challenged me & more then simply increased my resolve to be a mommy of an angel here on earth. There is truely a reason for everything...even if we won't know all the details until we join them again in heaven!
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I too suffered this kind of loss, and as hard as it was ans is again I know what you mean. You have truly insspired me to pick my slef up and go on with life. Sometimes we all take things and people for granted and don't even realize it at the time. Thanks you for your words, they really helped me today. :-)
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There are so many things that we should learn from life's experiences and those that come into our lives, if only for a short time. God places people in our lives for a reason, no matter how long they're there. I'm glad that you learned something from your angel. I learned similar lessons from Dot. Taking a lesson from these little angels helps the healing and makes you stronger.
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