
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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and still 2 years later looking for an answer. everyone of them have been early, not making it past 6 weeks. I am right now suffering another. they think the underlying cause is Lupus but none of my doctors know for sure. my heart is so sore right now and i just dont know what to do. we want a child together so badly, thats why we keep trying. we have so much love to offer. we are honest and good people so its even harder to understand why this has to keep happening to us.i guess I am reaching out for friends here, someone who can honestly say i know what its like to loose so much with no definite answers as to why. i am so sad.
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If I may suggest...have you thought of a little ritual that might help you with the pain? Planting a tree or flowers, or something like that?
My doctor thinks that the placenta's just don't stay attached to my uterine wall, but have no clue as to why or how to solve it.
Early miscarriage is the hardest to figure out. We blame ourselves, and there is nothing we can do to change how it turns out.
I'm so terribly sorry for your losses. I am here if you would like to talk.
Many gentle hugs!
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I think lighting candles is a great idea. I might steal that one from you, if you don't mind. I've only had one- lost my baby somewhere between 7-8 weeks. Never have I experienced such emotional pain in my life.
I'm keeping you in my prayers hun. I'm so sad for all of your losses and if you ever need a friend to talk to or someone to vent to and just listen, I'm here. Take care.