i know this is probably such a stupid question. and my lack of sleep is probably to blame, but i have to ask. u see, we just had our second, and final, child. in between the 2 children i had a miscarrige at 7-8weeks. well, now that our family is complete i am lookin into getting a mothers ring. the thing is i am wondering if i should have a stone for my lil one that was lost added to the ring or if that is stupid. jeff, my hunny, says its kinda dumb since the stones are BIRTH stones and she didnt make it to hers. but i feel like if i dont then i am not doin right by her. but i dont wanna be OCD or stupid about it. i really have no idea what to do. im even makin myself feel even stupider about the whole thing the longer i go on about it. i could really use some advice on this. should i add the stone of her month of passing or jst let her "rest in peace" in a manner of speaking?? what would u do??
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