When I found out I was pregnant with my third child my inlaws were o/s. They were due home on sunday 2 days after my 12 wk scan. They were away 3 months so didnt know I was pregnant and we were looking forward to suprising them. My scan didnt go well and baby had no heartbeat and had stopped growing at 8wks. I was in hospital when they came home, "suprise"!. My problem is although they have been supportive with our two little ones She hasnt acknowledged what has happend to me, even the pregnancy. Like it's never happened. When she was away I had bad morning sickness all day, I drove every sat to visit the nursing home her Mum is in to check on her, it's nearly 1 hour away and with two toddlers screaming in the back and a dose of all day sickness, I feel let down!. She has told my husband she had to d&cs but hasnt told me. I just want her to say something to me. Is this to much to ask? or maybe she doesnt want to upset me. I do get upset easily but with noone really saying anything it makes it like nothing has happened. My Mum passed away 7yrs ago and I miss her so much, I'd love to feel a bit closer to My motherinlaw but dont think it's gonna happen. Sorry to blab on, just feel hurt.
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