i had my miscarriage on 12/01. yesterday morning i woke up clotting and in so much pain i was passing out. we went back to the er, they did a bunch of tests and everything is normal. how long does the physical pain last? i am cramping and feel like i've been kicked in the stomach really hard. in your experience does this sound normal? if so, approximately how long has it taken you guys to start feeling phisically well again? i am tryng really hard to get on with my life for the sake of my husband, my daughter, my sanity. i haven't returned to work yet - my bosses understanding has been an incredible blessing, she confided in me that she has been through two miscarriages and knows what we are going through. i also have a question about my daughters mental well being - she is 8, wonderful, smart and very intuitive. she was unfortunately with us in the er when i had the miscarriage. she says that she is fine, and i can tell that she is trying to be there for me emotionally. i feel guilty because i am the parent and i want to be there for her. i have tried to keep open dialogue going with her regarding this loss, but she doesn't really seem to want to talk other than saying that she is fine and just wants me to get better. how did you cope with the feelings of the siblings who have lost and are hurting? any input that you may have would be so helpful. i want to thank everyone who responded to my last post-when i opened my inbox and saw thye supportive messages that i received it was such a wonderful feeling.
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