Miscarriage Support Group

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miscarriage and sadness

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my husband and i found out that we were pregnant after over 2 years of trying on feb 26 on march 1 i had a miscarriage, it hurts so bad i was only about 4 weeks but that still doesn't help. we have been married for almost 6 years and decided to wait a couple years before trying to have a baby, we were overjoyed when we found out that we were,but the joy didn't even last a week. we want to start trying soon i know the doctors say wait 3 months but i hope to be pregnant again by then, our doctor didn't say anything about waiting but i so want to be pregnant soon
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I know the pain and loss you are going thru i my self tryed for 3 years with no luck I have one living child who is 5 . My Advise to you is i know you want a baby soon but a new child will not stop the hurt you feel now but if you and your husband think its time to try agine i wish you nothing but luck
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Im sorry for your loss. Me and my boyfriend went through losing our dear Natally at 10. 3 weeks gestation. It was so hard. That was in july of 06. This past febuary i found out i was pregnant again.
We didnt wait the 3 months, we started trying again right after, but it didnt happen until feb. when we didnt try so hard it happened again for us. I wish you the best of luck. {{hugs}}
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I am very sorry. It is extremely hard to wait. I was told to wait and so I did, one cycle. We started trying agin after that and I thought I would be pregnant quickly, but that was eight months ago and every month is a huge letdown. Your body does need some time to heal. You have been through hell both emotionally and physically. Just be careful..
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my doctor told me that you wont become pregnant again until your body is ready, and it could be true. less than months after my miscarriage, I got pregnant again.
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It is true that every month is a huge let down,but when you dont rush and you just relax,it will happen.I have been waiting for two months now and nothing.It is very disappointing.But I realize that the thing you want the most will happen when you least expect it.Good luck to you and your husband!{Lots of hugs!}
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