Miscarriage Support Group
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Is it me being selfish and bitter or is it a little insensitive for my sister in law to ask for "baby stuff "for Christmas(from my mom)maybe Maternity clothes but "baby stuff" and she is not due till May The last thing I want is to sit around the Christmas tree and watch her open Baby gifts it will be to painful since I was suppose to be due in June. Maybe I wouldn't feel this way if my sister in law was a bit more supportive. I don't know wither she feels akward calling me, but just a phone call asking how I'm doing and if I need to talk would be nice. I feel as though she is making things uncomfortable between us by being distant. Maybe I'm wrong maybe I should call her. The worst part about it is now my mom feels akward about things too because my baby was suppose to be her baby and she wants to still be excited about my brothers baby without making me feel bad. I dont't know maybe I'm being to angry and sensitive but I can't help it
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No sometimes tis best to just get everything out in the open. I would voice my concerns to my mom and ask that if she wants to get some baby things for Christmas either do it before you get there or after you leave. The reason I say this is because this season is hard enough anyway for us who have lost a child. The less stressed we can be the better. I hope I was of some help. God bless!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
