A friend of mine is now leaving this community because of an ignorant woman who took something completely out of context! After reading her post it was very obvious to me what the meaning behind my friends post was. She was mearly stating that every pregnant woman has a right to complain about the aches and pains of pregnancy! And altho they complain it DOES NOT mean they are any less thankful for the gift that they are receiving!!!! And this woman told my friend that she doesn't deserve her child because she complains or whines or doesn't know how it feels to ttc for many years! For her info my cousin that's pregnant thought she would never have children she also had a devastating miscarriage awhile back that has put an enormous strain on this pregnancy, yet she still complains about the aches and pains. I do not believe that that means she doesn't deserve a child! And she appreciates this child more than life it's self! To tell anyone on this community that A) they have no right to complain and B) if they do they don't really appreciate their child is moronic! To all please take none of this personally everyone has a right to their opinions. But to take something so far as to tell someone anyone that they do not deserve their child...well I just don't see how anyone can say that especially in a support group setting.
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