Miscarriage Support Group

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It happened again.

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It has taken me a week to come to the realisation that i miscarried again.

Last week at what i thought was the start of my period, i was in excrusiating pain. I was stood in the shower when what i thought was a blood clot hit the floor at my feet. I picked it up and i realised what it was.

I'd miscarried again..

Will i ever be able to carry a baby?
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Hi there. I am sorry to hear of your recent experience. That also happened to me last July. The doctor thought it was most likely a miscarriage but could be some clotting/shedding of the womb left over from a previous miscarriage. I don't think it can be proved without a PG test for sure. Good luck with everything. Thinking of you.
Zayannee
Zayannee
I cant tell you if you will or will not ever be able to carry a baby. I can tell you that someday you will be a mom.

Someone said something to me the other day that has really stuck. Genetics are not what makes a mom.

If you can love and support a child then you can be a mom. That much I know.
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My heart goes out to you.

Please take care of yourself during this difficult time. See a doctor to make sure there are no complications.
Be kind to yourself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have felt that way too and still do at times. I too have not had a successful pregnancy. When you are emotionally ready try again. and I agree as hard as it is genetics doesn't make a good mom. we will both have the joy of a baby at some point in the future take care of yourself
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why does this always seem to happen in the shower? Is that the place to have this happen? It makes showering so traumatizing because it's all you think about! At least it's all I think about. I was terrified to hop back into the shower after my m/c happened. It's so terrible.
I feel for you.. so sorry you had this happen to you and had to see what you saw:(
deleted_user
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I'm really sorry to hear this, i have had 2 mc and am feeling the same 'will i ever carry a baby? and have it born?'

my mum had 5 miscarrages in a row and then went on to have 5 healthy babies afterwards. just hang in there and stay positive.it will happen eventually xx
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