Miscarriage Support Group
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Iv been told to go ahead with trying to conceive again but i don't know if it is the right time. My dad had heart surgery about two weeks ago and had two small strokes after. I don't know if it be a good idea to plan a baby right now.So I'm asking is it OK to try or maybe hold off for a little while?
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Only you can decide when the ime is right for you. If you feel ready and are oked by the doc then go for it. But if you don't feel mentaly ready then take some time to prepare yourself. I hope that helped hunny.
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be true to yourself, sometimes us as mothers need to be selfish and think of ourselves, no matter what else is goin on in your life don't do anything until you are ready, cause nobody has the same feelings as you.
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to tell you the truth, i'm not a big fan of waiting a prescribed period of time just because the doctor, or somebody, thinks it would be best for your psyche. (but then maybe i don't have the healthiest psyche either, who knows!) on the other hand, i am a huge fan of stopping in your tracks if your gut instinct tells you now is not the time to go forward. it's only 28 days, a good amount of time for thinking over a decision that will change your life forever. good luck with this, i hope you'll follow your gut.
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I agree, that its all up to you to decide when the right time is. If you feel like theres alot going on in your life right now, and a pregnancy would be even more stress, I would hold off for a while. I hope this helps :)
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It sounds like you need to take it easy right now. I would be scared to be pregnant and under a lot of stress.
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I struggle with the idea too - I have decided to hold off because I know that I am not healed yet emotionally. I think it is okay to hold off - but you have to make that decision - I'm here to listen if you want to talk about it. Sorry about your dad - I hope he gets better soon.
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I wanna thank you all for the advice it has helped me think of what is right for me and mu family.I just hope i am not being too selfish.
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