Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
I am only 20, turning 21 in Feb and I know that I am young. My mother always says I am an old soul. I LOVE LOVE LOVE children and even though Rileigh was not planned, I LOVED the thought of having a baby. I so badley want a baby. I know there is time etc, but I just feel ready emotionally and phsyically.
Foes this sound unrealistic to anyone? is it normal to feel this way?
Foes this sound unrealistic to anyone? is it normal to feel this way?
4tomorrow
I don't think that's unrealistic at all as long as you are ready and can be responsible mom. Everyone's different. I've seen women in 30s who didn't know how to take care of their childen. And I've seen women in early 20s who are very responsible and mature so it all depends on individual. But I know what you mean by that you love the though of having a baby. Ever since my miscarriage I can't wait for the day I am ready to have a baby and start a family.
deleted_user
im ready in all ways except for the fact that I dont have anyone. The would of been father of Rileigh left me a few eeks before i found out i was pregnant.m which made it really hard, having to go through it all on my own, because he did not know ata the time
deleted_user
I'm fixing to be 25 and I had the same situation/response. Our baby wasn't planed either since we both wanted to be secure in our jobs before marriage and babies but since my MC I don't wanna wait anymore. My father who has been a big help to me though all this thinks that my unplanned PG/MC is God telling me that I am ready and while those things would be nice they are not necessary. So don't doubt yourself. Your not wired adn your thoughts are not unrealistic.
deleted_user
I dont think its unrealistic. I'm only 21. Zoie was sort of planned... lol. I was only 20 then and now we're trying again. It is VERY normal to feel this way. Good luck and god bless
deleted_user
I think it's normal. if you feel you're ready and you want a baby then that's all you need to know. Good Luck!!
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