sMy husband and I are trying again and each this week my friend should come In a way I want to be preg. and then again I want my friend to start because I am scared that I might MC again, along witgh get High blood pressure and get my Diabetes back, I just look to the positive side that I will have a beutiful child to hold and love

Give it time. I miscarried in July and I still have some fears, it has gotten a lot better though. Let yourself heal from this loss before you start thinking about trying again. When people are rude about trying again, just tell them you are dealing with too much now. They just don't know what to say about the loss.

I was so scared to try again. But I did just three months after I lost my daughter. I now have a beautiful baby boy that just turned a year old yesterday. When you can feel the joy of having a new baby puts more of the fears aside. I have never forgot my daughter, I still hurt for her, but if I never lost her I would not have Gavin. You will know when it is the right time to try again ;)

i mc a few years ago and im still not over it. i would love to have another one and have tried but each month just breaks a little more of me off.. as i want a baby so bad now and it just doesnt seem to happen i fear it never will. i also am very afraid as much as i want another baby. i think what i had to go through last time and i really dont think i could go through that again. its okay to be scared i think we all are. i have heard though it is better to try again straight away your chances are better. but its whether your ready to try...thats up to you...

i was scxared after my 1st mc, but tried again straight away and got pg soon after, i was scared but got excited whenw e saw the heartbeat on the scan. then we lost our baby 2 weeks later.

NOW im so scared in case it happens a 3rd time. i wa\nt a bbay so much but dont want to go thru the loss again xx

I am definitely scared this is my 4th loss. We are waiting on test to see what is up. I want to keep going because giving up has never really been me. So I think we are just going to keep going. Goodluck with whatever u decide.

this is my 3rd loss and i def scared, i really dont think i can face all this again. I agree it pisses me of when my friends (who have never been pregnant) keep telling me oh your young you can try again its not the point! The last 2 times i didnt talk to anyone about the losses i had but i think it is really important you do xx

My husband and I lost our precious baby on Feb. 7th, 2006. She was born still 5 days after our due date. It was the most traumatic and heart breaking experience we have ever been through. Since then it has been a very long and hard road to walk. We have gone through a series of emotions and struggled at times to get by. It took us about a year and eight months to even think we could try again. It's now been a year and ten months and we just found out two days ago that we are expecting another baby. I thought this would be the scariest time of my life. I am a little scared, but to be honest the joy and happiness outweighs our fears. You will know when the time is right again. Just don't rush it. Your heart needs time and the memory of your baby will always be with you.

I just delivered my baby boy in October after 2 losses. my first loss, I thought was just a fluke and wouldn't or just couldn't happen again but it did. There was always something in me very scared to try again but that empty spot in my heart was too much to bear. My third pregnancy was the most terrifying time of my life but I have the most beautiful little boy that I would not have if I let fear take over. I understand your pain though, just give yourself some time to heal I know the pain seems unbearable and that u can't possibly go through it again, thats what I thought but I made it through two losses and I stood tall because I felt like I was a survivor. Hang in there

I had an etpoic pregnacy last christmas... I didn't know I was pregnant, I cope by thinking that I had a medial problem... needed surgrey... and I heeled.... well... Here is it a year later, and I am not accepting the fact... I lost a baby.... since I accepted it.... the decision to try again was eaiser for me to make...

Prior to this acceptance... the thought of getting pregnant again made me scared.. so I voided all toghether say

Now, I accepted the lost, and I am ready for nature to take place-- it is out of my hands--- I have my faith....

The thought that made me decide that yes, I wanted another baby, was that I would rather have another angel baby than no more babies at all...

Absolutely? Why take the chance of having your heart broken again. People don't get it! They are insincere. Unless you have actually have had a miscarriage, don't offer advice. YOu have to give yourself time to heal. People and little of yourself is looking for a replacement of that baby, your future. NOTHING will ever replace it. Time will just allow the hole to shrink a little.

I'm petrified. I had my miscarriage almost 2 years ago now and haven't tried again. I'm starting to consider it, but i'm so paranoid of something going wrong I really want to lose weight first so it's one less complication...but a part of me is thinking maybe I should stop putting my life on hold and stop making excuses and try again...but all of the what ifs...I'm trying to think that what if the next time there's no problems and I'm putting off that happiness? it's so hard.

You will know when it's time to try again. Only you will know that feeling. You will be scared, but it will not overcome you and you will be able to go into trying again feeling ready. Nothing will change the love you have for your angel baby, and you will never forget or stop loving that child. Give yourself time, don't worry about trying again until you decide you want to. I know the whole you can try again thing pisses you off, it does me sometimes, but just see the innosence in people. And that is that they don't know what the heck to say to you at this time, because many have never experienced this. I know you wished they'd shut up, but you know people feel weird when they can't say anything. They want to help, but don't know how.