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Irony

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Just wanted to vent.

So it's been nine months now. Things are getting better, but it's still hard. I miss my baby so much everyday.

Today I thought I made progress. I looked at someone's baby pictures and was actually guenuinely happy for them and didn't cry. Then I was so proud of myself that I started crying and floods of emotions started running back to me again. Gosh...the irony of life amazes me sometimes.

Hope everyone's had a good day! *hugs* and prayers to all!
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That kind of thing happend to me too. I was laughing and playing with my daughter and husband one day, we were chasing each other around the house (shortly after one of my miscarriages). Suddenly my laughing turned into tears - OUT OF NOWHERE! I think its just your mind and body still coming to terms with such a tragic loss. I'm glad you're doing better. Every bit helps.
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Hey. I understand what you mean. You definatly did make progress by smiling and trying to be happy for those few minutes, its normal to cry!! Im sure it will always be hard to look at your pictures, but within time, you will just look at them and smile. You would have been a great mother! Im know it! keep your head up high! things will get better!
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