Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Hey all,
We are proud parents of a 2 year old and 18 weeks pregnant and found out less than a week ago that it was a boy! That was the best news I got that day everything else took my heart away. We found out that my baby has a lot of abnormalities and is not going to make it. As of right now he is suffering from a neural tube defect and this is a lethal condition. Now the doctors are inducing me on Thursday. This is very hard to deal with and I am going out of my mind thinking about it! I will be 19 weeks at the time of birth so legally at 20 weeks they make you name and issue a death certificate we are doing it anyways. This is completely unexplainable. I have lost a big part of me.
Our son DANIEL DAVID will be greatly missed, I just wish I could have met him on the outside world. We named him after our Grandfathers and his name is quite suiting! Daniel means God is my Judge and David means Beloved.
We are proud parents of a 2 year old and 18 weeks pregnant and found out less than a week ago that it was a boy! That was the best news I got that day everything else took my heart away. We found out that my baby has a lot of abnormalities and is not going to make it. As of right now he is suffering from a neural tube defect and this is a lethal condition. Now the doctors are inducing me on Thursday. This is very hard to deal with and I am going out of my mind thinking about it! I will be 19 weeks at the time of birth so legally at 20 weeks they make you name and issue a death certificate we are doing it anyways. This is completely unexplainable. I have lost a big part of me.
Our son DANIEL DAVID will be greatly missed, I just wish I could have met him on the outside world. We named him after our Grandfathers and his name is quite suiting! Daniel means God is my Judge and David means Beloved.
Zayannee
Im so sorry for the hurt that this has caused you. I cant say that I know how you feel but I can say that I feel you are a very brave person and I admire how positive you are. my prayers are with you and your family.
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I am so sorry my prayers will be with you and yours.
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I( sorry to hear this. If you need to talk please contact me.
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Thank you all and thanks for thinking that I am positive I cannot stand to think what I have to do tomorrow I am falling apart but thank you all so much
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Just know that people everywhere will be praying for you and little Daniel. I know that he will be in good hands and you will meet again. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Thank you all for your support I really need it! And for all of you in pain due to a loss I am truley sorry for all of you! I will keep you all in my prayers!
NoEAshly06
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can't even begin to imagine. I will keep you, your family & David in my prayers.
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Good luck tomorrow, I am really sorry for your loss. You have an amazing outlook on this situation. I hope you will have time to spend with little Daniel.
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I too am so sorry for your loss.. I will keep you and your family in my prayers..
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Oh, I am so sorry for your loss. This of course must be so painful. You will survive this, and you are not alone. My time in labor with my sweet Nina, was hearbreaking, but also such a special time, that really connected me to her despite the outcome. There are lots of us thinking of you.
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I am so sorry. I cannot imagine having to go through what you and your family are experiencing right now. I posted a listing of things that might help in a case like this (see my july 23rd journal entry). I am sending a big hug your way, and again, I am sorry for your loss.
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My daughter had a NTD, anencephaly. I wish I would have seen this post earlier than today as you are probably at the hospital already. I do hope the docs gave you every option so that you are making the best decision. I fully understand what your last ultrasound was like. I went through that over a year ago. I am praying that Daniel makes it through birth for you to see him. There is so much information I wish I would have been able to give you before you induced. My heart is breaking in two again because yet another child is becoming an angel due to NTDs.
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I am so sorry about your loss. I will be praying for you. Just know that if you need me I am here for you.
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Im so sorry for your loss. We are all here if you need to talk. My family and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
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My heart is absoluting breaking for you. I also had to be induced at almost 20 weeks becuase I had a very advanced infection. We had the opportunity to hold our angel Renee Lynn several times although she was not born alive and I am so grateful for those moments. It is so hard and unfair to lose someone you love so much! Love the name you picked!
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