Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
It is so hard to know that God does things for a reason sometimes. I do have a wonderful little girl and I wouldn't trade her for anything. But the loss of this baby has me really upset. We have been trying for 2 years and finally I was pregnant. Well something must have been wrong or something for me to loose it. I miss this baby so much and I feel like it is my fault. We are going to keep trying but I am scared. I am sure that feeling will go away as will the feeling of anger and despair. Is anyone feeling the despair too? I don't know how to cope with it when I am with my daughter all day by myself.
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I wish so much that i could give you the answers to make everything better but since i too feel the same i got nothing but understanding for you and just keep hugging your little one everytime you feel sad. I know that for me at least knowing that there are so many women who know exactly what we're feeling has helped me the most. Stay strong.
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I have a 4 year old son who is my best friend and i too was hit hard by the loss of our baby. God knows how i got through those first days and looked after him- its all a blur and he did see me in tears. I told him what had happened and he just accepted it, but after a week it really changed him and i now regret telling him. I've now found going on long day trips helps. Taking him to a museum or playpark- anything where we are out of the house and busy. It always seems to take my mind off things.
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i am sorry for your loss. i know it seems that nothing is going to ease the pain of your loss. But is does lighten because on this path we learn so much about love, compassion and God's grace. My prayers are with you.
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I remember going to the toilet to cry ,just so my little boy would not see me.Even though yo uhave a child the pain off the loss is the same ,some times its hard to deal with your child when you just want to curl up and cry.If you have any one who can take her for a while now and then take them up on it and have a break ,you need it.
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stormie1, I know exactly how you are feeling, because I am in the same boat, rowing with a different oar...because the only difference betweew our situations is that I have a son at home, and you have a daughter. Like you We have been trying for 2 years to have another child, and finally it happened and then at 10 weeks (June 30, 2007) I lost my precious baby....I am having a hard time with this and like yourself I guess, can really use someone that can relate to my situation.
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That's so tough. I felt dispair too after my second miscarriage. I always felt like "every other woman in the world just decides to get pregnant, and does it! I have try and fail, try and fail, try and fail..." It will get better, but its hard. There's no two ways about it. Remember that its not your fault. Pregnancy being what it is, it always seems like it somehow must be our fault when we lose a baby, but its not. It's hardly ever the mother's fault when a miscarriage occurs, as a matter of fact. Big hugs, honey. Keep the faith! Keep trying!
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Thanks for all the support. I am doing better today after a total meltdown last night. I found out my sister-in-law is very pregnant and due in just a few weeks. I saw pics of her growing belly and it sent me over the edge. But today has been better.
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