Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
i work in childcare and i went back to work about one week after loosing my baby Lillyana. that may seem early but at work i didnt think about my little one i was to busy. I feel bad becuase when parents bring in little baby gals a few weeks old i cant go near them i neally snarl at them, they may me feel sick inside. i am meant to be professional with parents and children but i cant be with the little ones. When the babies come in that are that younge i wish and prey that they would go away again. everyone else is all over them ande all lovey dovey. Once i was like that always wanted a cuddle for the bubs. but not now, i dont want to be anywhere near them... it makes me feel bad cause of the way i feel.......
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Its competely normal to have those feelings. In time u will be able to be near small ones again. I went throught the same thing.
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You've got to be a pretty brave person to go back into that environment so soon. I agree with needhope, with time you'll be able to be near the babies again. It took me a couple of months after my first miscarriage, but then I went to a party and didn't want to let anyone else hold one of the other women's baby. So, eventually, you'll probably enjoy being around them again. Stay strong!
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hi again. when im with young babies this is the only time i get upset now. i just want to get over it. i pretend it hasnt happened actully i dont think about it anymore at all...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
