Ever since my m/c my husband and I have been a little off. He was wonderful through it, we grieved together, but since then I have felt like we were so apart. I try to talk to him and tell him I feel like he's not here, and his reply is "i'm right here" I explain I don't mean physically not here, and he says he knows, and he's here, but I just feel so disconnected, and I have tried everything and I don't knwo what to do or whats wrong. I have no idea how to fix it, and he just doesn't get it. It kind of scares me. Has anyone gone through this? Any advice on how to fix it? Am I the only one who feels this way? Please help!
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