I had a mc 5 months ago. I was talking to my husband about it and he really is not handeling it well. We go through a lot of things in our life. My husband ever since I've known him has been a busy man with alot on his plate. We've delt with law suits stemming from owning businesses, overcome the trials of getting a green card, struggled to get through college and building businesses that nearly did not make it. He had to leave his country and start new as a teenager with only 50 bucks in his pocket. So he's had a hard life. It always seems to be one thing after the other. But the other night he told me that since the mc he feels like God is not on his side any more. My mc was caused by a car accident and he says what are the odds of that happening by a car accident. He blames it on his bad luck although he was not even in the car at the time. He is depresed. He has a heavy load but the mc was the straw that broke the camels back. He is very unhappy and thinks I should leave him because he makes me miserable. He sees everything in a negative light. NOTHING is positive, nothing. He has attempted to go to counseling before but literally does not have time, he owns 3 businesses. I don't know what to do. We are such opposite people we both wonder how we ended up together. We love eachother but its hard to live this way. I don't know if anything could ever make him happy. What should I do?
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