I had a miscarriage about 6 months ago. I was 11 weeks along and it was our first pregnancy. I felt like I was doing well with my grief and moving on with TTC and then in one week's time (about 2 weeks ago), I had to very close friends (one that I work with and see everyday) annouce thier pregnancies. I wasn't even aware that they were trying. After that it just seems like my world has been flipped upside down, I am sad a lot, especially when I see them. I have no idea how to deal with this. They are both great friends and have been very sensitive to me but it is breaking my heart. I don't want to take away from thier happiness but I don't know how to be happy for them. Any adive would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
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