I know my friends and family meen well but they always seem to hurt my feelings when disscussing my misscariages. i have even had a friend tell me and my husband to save up money and she would be a surrogant mother for us. i know she thinks she is helping but she isn't. comments like "it will eventually happen" or "it just wasn't our time" or the worst "just be glad it wasn't a baby yet" I know they meen well but they are breaking my heart. how do you deal when people just don't know what to say?
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