
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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Okay so I've been through a pretty traumatic loss before and had a heck of a time dealing with a friend who was a month ahead of me. I couldn't see her and when I did I would break down when I saw her growing belly. I didn't handle it very well So now this time around my sister in law is pregnant along with four other friends who I also work very closely with. We were all within 1-2 months of each other and joked about walking down the halls together as our pregnant posse. Now I don't know how I am going to deal with it and react when they start showing. I am really trying to be happy for them but when I look at them I know they still have their baby and I wouldn't wish anything bad to happen but it still just really bothers me. I have already told them that I may pull back once in awhile and to not take it personally, but it is just so hard. I've already been on the sidelines watching others have babies and now here I am again. I am really trying to just look at what I have to be thankful for today and not look to the future because I should see a new baby in it, and now I don't. Any suggestions to help me cope with the anticipated months ahead?
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i stupidly wrot ein my journal that i hated that she was pregannt and hwo she was always going on about it and she read it, i almost lost her as a friend.
time is the greatest healer, i dos till get sad and a bit jealous when she tells me about whats happening with her bump/baby, but now i can be happy for her,
in time the sadness and pain has eased a little, but will never go away, and in time i hope to be pregnant again and as happy as she is now. i will never wish what i have gone through on anyone, and im sure you dont either.
all i can say is explain how oyu feel and take your time. dont force yourself to be happy for them all, it will come on its own.
good luck xx
I'm very sorry for you loss and I hope it gets a bit easier for you in time.