My twin sister, along with my best friend, 6 coworkers, and what seems like every other female on the planet, is pregnant and wants me to talk baby with her. Says she misses me because she never sees me (I keep ignoring her). She is trying to be sensitive but honestly she doesn't understand my loss--only people who have been through this really understand. She didn't even want to think about having kids until I got pregnant, now she's the one who will be having a baby. How did that happen? My husband and I have been trying and trying ever since but no luck. I know I can't turn my back on her forever but I just don't want anything to do with her pregnancy or baby. That's so selfish, I know. I'm really conflicted because I actually want to be a decent sister but I don't want to deal with her (I've been saying this for months). What do I do?
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