
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I just found out yesterday I was suppose to be 10 weeks but the baby had passed at 8 weeks. Does anybody have any advice of what I can do to make me feel better or atleast bring my spirits up some. I am having my D&C Monday and I am so stressed and one minute I am fine with it all and the next I am crying my eyes out.
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Right now, the best thing for you to do is to take care of yourself, don't over do it, and try not to over think it. It was not your fault that your baby didn't make it. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
i hope you start to feel better soon take care of yourself and make time for yourself. x
If you feel like crying, cry! Get it out. Don't try to stop it. I promise you will get to the point where you don't feel completely hopeless. It's a rough road but it will make you stronger than you ever thought you were.
If you're a faithful person, pray for strength. I couldn't have gotten through this without my faith!
Also, talking to people who've been through the same thing has been a tremendous help.
I found out that I was going to miscarry Nov. 25, but didn't naturely pass everything and had to have an emergency D&C jan. 5. I was a nervous wreck about having to have D&C, but I surprisely felt good the next day. It is very scarey to have that...but there is HEALING afterwards.
As far as for grieving over your loss...IT TAKES TIME!!! I started out talking to my closet friends and also those who experienced a miscarriage. It is alomost march and I am still grieving!!! Grief Counseling is my lastest source of help.
The best thing my therapist told me was that my sadness and anger..whether at God or even at others who are pregnant or have kids...is completely NORMAL!! Don't put yourself down...everyone grieves differently!!