We have had 2 loses one at 12 weeks and the other at 5 months. My girls have had a very hard time with my loses. My oldest(12) daughter wants to know why god is letting this happen. And well my youngest (4)..Let me give you an example..We were at the store the other day, and my daughter wanted a toy..she began to cry a little. They lady in front of us had a baby boy in her arms, @ 6months..when my daughter turned to look at him he smiled sooo big, ( yes this tugged at my heart it's hard to see babys) She turned to me and started to cry harder and said," I don't like babys mommy only my baby brother!! I miss him!" I don't understand how she feels these things..It hurt me so bad. She does that..she will begin to cry and tell me she misses her baby brother, sometimes she even calls for him. I just don't know how they are going to deal with this again..Even if we make it through and the baby is fine..the anxiety of it until then will be overwhelming..How do I tell them it will be ok?? I'm not pregnant yet..but when I am what do i say to reassure them??
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