
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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It happened again... I miscarried at 7 weeks. I am broken-hearted, lost, I can't even face getting off the couch. I'm trying so hard to be strong, but my sister-in-law is such a bitch! I've tried to be nice, but all she wants to do is compete with me! When I was pg, she would constantly start in with pg symptoms (gagging from "nausea", napping all the time, etc.) She claimed she really didn't want a baby, just feared she was pg (even though she was on birth control). Well, right after I lost my baby, she figured out she wasn't pregnant, but decided she and my brother were going to start trying. THE DAY I LOST MY BABY BEAR! She called me, uninvited me from our weekend trip with them due to her impending ovulation, then immediately began talking about her plans to become pregnant again. Funny how that happened as soon as I m/c, 'cause she didn't give a damn before! I just don't know how to face her, especially if she becomes pregnant. Holidays are coming up, and she is my brother's wife, but all she can talk about around me is pregnancy. I hate her! How can anyone be that insensitive?! Any advice on how to talk to her without lowering myself to her level? ANY ADVICE is appreciated! Thank you!
Love,
Mahadra
Love,
Mahadra
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I am so sorry for your loss.
I'm going to give you the advice that I use. Take her with a grain of salt. I know it sounds impossible. But some people just don't understand how stupid and cold they really sound. These women are kind of stuck in our lives. I am just trying to make the best of it. We have so much more important things to deal with than their BS. I vent about her to my close friends. Some people tell me to just let her know my feelings. Maybe one day when we both have children. Maybe then she might understand my pain. But for now, I would rather avoid a battle. (That is what my sister in law is capable of!) Good luck! And ignore her dumb remarks!