
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I had my daughter, Natalie, stillborn on October 17th. I know this pain is never going to completely go away. But I get into these stages almost predictably every other day where I am hysterically crying and feel so helpless. I have been getting bad dreams at night, and all I can think of is how she never looked at me, I never heard her voice , and what stages she would be at this point ( being 5 weeks old). I have a memory box that I do go through, looking at pictures of her and holding the clothes she wore, just to feel close to her. I have been trying to make this a positive and learning experience (as positive as you can in the situation) and rely on my faith but I don't know if I am pushing myself too much too fast. I just need some advice on better ways to try to deal with this tremendous pain.
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I have had 4 early MCs, I know its not quite the same but in my experiences I have found you have good days and bad days. The pain does get better over time, it doesn't go away, but it will ease off (i'm talking a few months, not weeks). Try not to epecxt too muct of yourself too quicklt. Its completely natural to feel and act as you do. When i realised that i did feel better.
Take care. Email me if you ever want to chat.
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