I had a miscarriage in aug 08 before i met my husband we married in may 09. on aug 09 a year later i had another miscarriage. I joined this support group because two weeks ago the doctor called me saying one of my chromosomes where flipped but he didn't think that would cause me any problems having kids. I went to see a Geneticist on Monday to talk about what this was about. She basically told me half my eggs have the abnormal chromosome and half of them does not. The half with the abnormal one if they are conceived they will result in a miscarriage. However, she could not give me any comfort considering there is no way of telling which egg will come next. Day to Day seems to have its hardships considering everyone around me is having a baby. My new sister in law is due in feb. I get upset when people tell me that my miscarriages where meant to be. Its also hard to find out i have this genetic condition. That there is a might or a might not chance i will have a miscarriage on the next time i get pregnant.
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