I had my D & C only about a month ago, but for the first time in my life i dont know how to express how I"m feeling and i just want it to pass. Everytime i would get upset after my D & C, i would get very nauseaus because of being pregnant so I would have to hold back how i feel. Well now, i'm passed all that but i still cant express how i felt..Only twice now in a month have i been able to cry and let it out..but i feel like it's not over. I"m so jealous of my sister in law who just had her first, and my sister to have her second..I"m so depressed adn upset and people just tell me Just get over it, i went through it you'll be fine." suck it up..When you tell your family on christmas that your having a baby, that's a lot of pressure when you feel like it's your fault you lost it..
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