Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
OKay so yesterday was the hardest day ever....Well I will start by saying that the 1 year anniversary of our first angel was on December 2nd...I was okay on that day, I held my head high and I dealt with it really good, in my opinion. So On December 3rd, I felt myself starting to go..We had to go to the secretary of state for tabs and pregnant woman galore, I did fine, until there was one right next to me telling what seemed to me EVERYTHING possible about her pregnancy to her lady friend...I started to cry...I kept thinking about how I would have been an awful mother for not even shedding 1 tear on the day we lost our angel..That it was a good thing God took our angel..it was awful. Then about 9:00 last night, I was feeding and giving water to our pets..i went to give the rats some water and our baby was dead in front of the water bottle, I thought she was sleeping (was common for her) so i touched her and tried to wake her up, but she was hard and her heart wasnt beating...Our baby died the day after the 1 year anniversary of our Angel...My pets are the ones that helped me through both of my miscarriages, they are my Babies...truly, their my children, I love taking care of them and one of them died...Im sorry I had to vent Im just so heart broken right now.
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i am reading this with tears in my eyes, i am so sorry that is the most awful thing to have happened esp on the day of all days. everyone deals with their grief in different ways and not crying on the 1 year anniversery does not make you awful or anything i bet you were thinking about it before and on the day and after as well which makes you a loving caring person! xxxx
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I completely agree with you. My pets are my babies too. I will be devastated when it is their time. I totally understand you loss. I will pray for you right now.
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I am so sorry for your loss. It can be hard to lose some one that you love. Pet's are our family too. You know what's kind of wierd the same thing happend to me last christmas with my chinchilla. My daughter was born on the 24 of dec. and my chinchilla tyrell died on Dec 25 a year after the death of my baby. *hugs* I am with you.
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