I'll give everyone of you an insight to what i just experienced. On December 20th, 2007 I found out that i was pregnant. I went to my first appointment on the 28th of December and thats when i learned i was 9 weeks pregnant. On that day i scheduled for my first ultrasound for on the 10th of Jan 08. Everything was going great well so i thought, until 7 Jan 08 i felt something that just wasn't normal. I went to the bathroom to discover that i started spotting. I called the nurse and explained to her it was a consistant flow it was spotting but it was brown blood. The nurse then told me that it was ok and the brown blood is just old blood left over from my last period and it was filtering out and to give her a call in the morning and let her know how i was feeling. I noticed the spotting picked up so i was experiencing heavy spotting and decided to go to the ER. There they took 5 or 6 tubes of blood and did a transvaginal ultrasound and together they learned i was pregnant with twins but my hormone level was not high enough to be 10wks and with twins. They told me that i need to go see the doctor the following day Jan 8th, so i went and they did an external ultrasound and they zoomed in on the baby so my husband and I got to see the baby for the first time only to find out there was no heartbeat to follow. The doc came in and briefed us that I lost the one baby early in pregnancy and the other i just lost recently. Doc said baby was 5-6 weeks according to Baby's length. I was devestated and decided that the best thing for me was to have a D&C because i don't think i could pass the baby myself. I was in enough heartache I couldn't imagine myself seeing baby if i passed myself. I have to go and schedule a D&C on the 9th of Jan. I'm here for support and to help and support others and support is all we have to get us by in the rough times.
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