Hello. I need some advice. I had a miscarriage/d&c in August. A week later a co-worker asked why I was gone for a few days. I explained to him that I had a mis-carriage, was so excited about my first child, etc. I said I had a d&c & his reply was "Oh, you had a d&C? A dump & cleanse?" I was silent & he said "oh, don't be mad, that's what my sisters call it." I walked into the bathroom & vomited I was so upset. Since then, human resources has talked to him but did not write him up. They told me to learn to work with him & that maybe he was using humor. I have so much anxiety & I'm so upset & disappointed. I feel like now I've taken many steps back in getting over the actual miscarriage. I can't handle being at work because of the callous attitude. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
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