I miscarried in Oct. 2006 at 12 weeks, and since then I have put it out of my mind so I wouldn't have to think about it. My projected due date was May 12 and the closer it gets the more I think about the baby. I've noticed that there are some days where it becomes an obsessive thought and for a month now I've had nightmares about death; EVERY time I close my eyes. I don't know what to do, I talked to a few family members and they said I should try one of these support groups but I still feel alone like I have no one to talk to. My husband thinks that I need to just forget about it and move on, but for some reason it's not that simple. What did you ladies do to help yourself deal with it?
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