I would tell him that you want to include her birthstone she is your baby, whether she is here or in heaven. It's not at all strange to ask for. But he should wait to give you the ring if he wants to leave a space "if" you had another baby. How strange and hard would it be for you to look at a ring with a space in it everyday. Eihter get the ring with your childs birth stone or wait. If you want a piece of jewelery to remember Sophie by ask for something simple with her birthstone like a mother baby necklace. The ring should wait for now.

I agree I think the ring should wait.Who know you might have twins later own.Get something special for the one you loss.Something you can put up in a scrap book with the ultrasound if you have some.

I bought a ring with what would have been my baby's birthstone. I think you should get something special for the child you lost. I am also thinking about asking for one of those mother baby necklaces for Christmas. The baby in my heart necklace is also a very good piece to consider. You can get it at www.miscarriagememories.com Hope this helps you some.

I thought long and hard about what I could do .
I decidet on a little Tattoo with my 2 Boys and my little Angel with some room ,if we would like to try again.
Good luck and take care

I bought myself a butterfly necklace with my babies birthstone in it. I had it made by a silver smith. But, I am sure you could go to a jewlery store and ask them to put a stone onto the butterfly. I wear it everyday so I don't feel so alone and "empty".

I decided to get a butterly bracelet with birthstones for both of the babies I miscarried. I feel good whenever I look at it because it reminds me of them.

Thank you for the wonderful idea on how to remember my baby. I went to the store and found a charm that was a hear with an angel engraved w/ the saying My Guardian Angel I think i will get it and have her name engrave on it.

I have a few pieces that I wear 2 at a time so that one is always around my neck when I sleep. I have a forget me not with her birth month stone and the other stone is for her due date month. I also have a nice foot prints on a mother's heart necklace with the same 2 birth stones attached. I got those from www.labelledame.com I also, went to www.myforeverchild.com and had a necklace made with her footprints from the hospital. The necklace has a birthstone for her due date dangling from it. I would wait on getting the ring, because like everyone said you may have twins. Who knows what you'll be blessed with next.