
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I'm sorry for posting this, but I really have to get it off my mind.
I've had 2 miscarriages, both happened at home, the most part anyway. Nobody ever told me to gather anything for the Dr. or anything. So both times I was so sad at what was happening...everything happened on the toilet. I didn't save anything...it all went down... I feel very very guilty for flushing and not gathering anything out. Is there anyone out there that did this and didn't get anything out? I am such a horrible person for not getting my babies out, I am going to live with this guilt forever because I can't undo what I've done. I guess I just need to know that someone else out there did the same thing that I did....sorry.
I've had 2 miscarriages, both happened at home, the most part anyway. Nobody ever told me to gather anything for the Dr. or anything. So both times I was so sad at what was happening...everything happened on the toilet. I didn't save anything...it all went down... I feel very very guilty for flushing and not gathering anything out. Is there anyone out there that did this and didn't get anything out? I am such a horrible person for not getting my babies out, I am going to live with this guilt forever because I can't undo what I've done. I guess I just need to know that someone else out there did the same thing that I did....sorry.
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I don't think you are a bad person at all. You didn't do anything wrong at all. You honor your babies with your memories. I know in your mind you know you did the right thing, but your heart is where the guilt is. I've struggled with similar issues. My son had lead posioning from breast milk. I know there is nothing I could have done differently (I didn't know the plates I was eating off of contained lead) but at low moments I still feel as if I poisoned him. Try to fill your heart with love so there is no room left for the guilt.
I am very sorry for your losses.