
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I am newly married. I found out 1 month after being married I was pregnant. Just as excited as I could be I waited a week, then called my OB for an appointment. Later that day I started stopping .... At 5 wks 5 days I miscarried. :*( heart broken and looking for answers I followed up with my OB and this is the answer I got. "it's nothing u did, nothing that could have been prevented. Do you have any questions ??? and goodbye" if I didn't already feel bad enough this just made it worse. I followed orders and waited one month to try again, in that time i found a NEW OB and was trying to clear my head. 1 month later ... pregnant again!!!! we are so excited this time, and i was feeling much differently. We are going to wait until christmas to tell everyone the good news, by then I will have had my first real appt and it will be wonderful. 6 weeks 1 day i started spotting again. Miscarried within the next 2 days. My husband is trying so hard to comfort me. Nothing helps and no one can say anything to me to make me feel any better. No one will answer my questions, and when I called the OB they said no necessary testing should be done until after the 3rd miscarry. WHAT?? I do'nt know if i can emotionally handle another miscarriage.
I am unsure of what to do. Try again or wait. What are the chances that I will have to go through dealing with another miscarriage. Why are all these undeserving people around me getting pregnant. Why is it that every where I turn my head is a new baby, or a pregnant mother looking just as happy as they can be. My husband and I did everything the way were should .... high school ,college, engagement, bought a house, marriage ... NOW we are ready for a baby, .... I guess I just thought it would be so easy. Just something that you do
any advice ?????
:*(
I am unsure of what to do. Try again or wait. What are the chances that I will have to go through dealing with another miscarriage. Why are all these undeserving people around me getting pregnant. Why is it that every where I turn my head is a new baby, or a pregnant mother looking just as happy as they can be. My husband and I did everything the way were should .... high school ,college, engagement, bought a house, marriage ... NOW we are ready for a baby, .... I guess I just thought it would be so easy. Just something that you do
any advice ?????
:*(
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The only thing I would suggest is ordering the book online it would probably be a little easier on you.
Hope this helps.
My advice would also be to ask the doctor to put you on Progesterone once you get pregnant again. My OB is going to do that. We don't suspect that I have a Progesterone problem, but it won't hurt and it could help. It makes me feel good to know that I'm doing something and not just sitting around waiting for disaster to happen again.
EmilyF is right. You deserve to be evaluated more thoroughly after two losses. She has a good list to start with.
Besides that you deserve the time and care you need to heal physically and emotionally. The second time around is different. Don't rush into anything until you are sure you can deal with all the possible outcomes. Take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you.
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