my due date was supposed to be dec 30th 07 and i'm also having a tough time. i've been doing ok, i have bad days but mostly good days. but right before thanksgiving i started thinking about it more and more and getting sadder and sadder. i'm sorry i don't have any advice, i just wanted you to know that your not alone and i'm here if you ever want to talk.

Same thing...Due date was Feb. 28 and still not pregnant. It does makes me so sad just to think about it, I just hope that I will be strong enough to cope with it!
I so sorry for your lost, and I wish I do have advice to give you!
Take care.

Here is my advice...maybe you are not meant to be pregnant until after the due date. Here is why I say that...I got pg right before my due date last May (mother's day of all days) and I miscarried two weeks before my due date. The due date for that baby would have been tomorrow (dec. 5) and I just m/c another baby last week. So, now I wonder if I am not meant to be pg. until after the previous due date passes. I guess for me, that would not be until after July 12th now. So, not to discourage you from trying, but don't worry if you do not get pg. until after that date passes. Maybe that will just be a hurdle you have to get over so that you can relax and enjoy the trying rather than trying to "beat" the date. I hope this helps. Good luck to you! :)

Thanks everyone. It's good to know I'm not alone. I do feel like I'm trying to beat the date so that is a good point. jsm16, I miscarried on Mother's Day weekend, so I have some understanding of how tough that day can be. Good luck to you all.

I know what you mean. My due date was sept 7th 07. I didn't want to think about it so I was doing fine and when that day came every little thing bugged and I was just not happy. You are not alone. It's natural for you to feel sad about it but you will get through it. Hugs =)

My due date would have been Jan 24th 2008. I am not pregnant and have now been told i will have to have ivf to concieve again. I feel very similar to you alone and down, i don't know what to advise but allow yourself to grieve for the loss of your baby and talk to others who are going through this too and it may help xx

It will be the 1 year annivesary of finding out we Mc on 7th Dec, I am dreading the day!
I also was desperate to be pregnant again by my due date, 23rd june 2007 but wasn't.
anyway found out I was pregnant on 13th july this year, concieved round about june 23rd! I know my angel sent me a present.
My thoughts are with you all struggling to get through this tough time, and my wishes for happy tears for you all soon.

My son Gavin was due Feb.27,2008. That is one week after my birthday. I was so excited because my OB was thinking about inducing me or c-section on my birthday. I found out that Gavin had died when I was 23 weeks pregnant. Now I am waiting to get my period so we can try again.

I think for me it's a bit different. I don't think it'll be as hard for me when my due date approaches. What will be hard for me is November 1st because that's the day I had my son. So on that date I'll celebrate him and not so much on my due date.

My due date was on Thanksgiving day. I had hoped to pregnant before, but it didn't happen. It was a hard day, but I just kept myself busy. I thought about my baby in Heaven and how great of a Thanksgiving it must have been up there. I found a little peace in that.

My due date is especially hard. My due date was January 27. My brother who has also passed on was born on January 25. I mourn every year at that time anyway it will be doubly hard this year...I am waiting until we pass that date to try again as I don't want to be depressed while pregnant!!1 Good luck ttc I will keep you in my prayers

My due date was june 1st, 11 years ago! I lost my baby at 12 weeks, and after I came out of hospital we planted a rose bush, kind of in memory of her. And for the past 11 years, it has always first flowered on 1st june. i like to think this is my angel saying hi.

id only have 2 weeks to go if i was still pregnant i was due on the 27 dec 2007 and also last yr i had a d&c on the 29th dec 2006 so i dont know im gonna deal wiv it really 1 thing i am gonna do is go an put some flowers on my lil angels grave i havent been to it since i buried him is that a bad thing me not goin there ? i think of him all the time and look at his pic from time to time but i am deffo gonna go just to remember he would of been born if all was well

I am keeping all of you in your prayers. I really do feel better knowing there are others out there who "get it." People I know who mc all were pregnant by their due date, so while it was a sad time, they couldn't relate.
I'm trying to decide if I should work that day to keep busy, or take a personal day just in case. I work in a preschool and therefore surrounded by babies and pregnant women. I'm not sure if I will be able to handle it emotionally.

Kella-I don't think that it is terrible at all. Grief is a personal matter and if visiting the grave isn't the way you deal with it, them fine. Don't ever feel guilty for the way you heal.