Miscarriage Support Group
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My sick note runs out next Tuesday and I am due back on Wednesday although I can stay off for longer I did think it was time for me to go back 2 weeks after my m/c.
Before I had my m/c work had been causing me a lot of stress. I am expected to do more and more all the time but my biggest problem is the bitching. The girls in my office are awful and even though they know I was preg they was being really bad. I reported this to my manager and I heard them laughing about it after they had been spoke to about my complaint. They just dont care and my managers think the sun shines out of there back side when they just get away with murder. My manager never got back to me about my complaint then I ended up off with my m/c.
I am finding it hard not to think they this stress and horrible girls at work contributed to my m/c and how I am going to react to them when I return as they are so 2 faced and will try being nice to my face when I return.
I am thinking about either getting some more time off, asking for a transfer to an other department or demanding that some thing is done about the problems before I return.
I have just spoke with one of my collegues who is the only 1 that is nice and she has just returned to work this week after a hysterectomy and they are not supporting her what so ever, she even had to lift her own computer back to her desk and reconnect it all
Before I had my m/c work had been causing me a lot of stress. I am expected to do more and more all the time but my biggest problem is the bitching. The girls in my office are awful and even though they know I was preg they was being really bad. I reported this to my manager and I heard them laughing about it after they had been spoke to about my complaint. They just dont care and my managers think the sun shines out of there back side when they just get away with murder. My manager never got back to me about my complaint then I ended up off with my m/c.
I am finding it hard not to think they this stress and horrible girls at work contributed to my m/c and how I am going to react to them when I return as they are so 2 faced and will try being nice to my face when I return.
I am thinking about either getting some more time off, asking for a transfer to an other department or demanding that some thing is done about the problems before I return.
I have just spoke with one of my collegues who is the only 1 that is nice and she has just returned to work this week after a hysterectomy and they are not supporting her what so ever, she even had to lift her own computer back to her desk and reconnect it all
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i feel you sister. my time off work also runs out on tues after my two week recovery period. i am lucky that i have a wonderful supportive team at work but it's the clients which make me anxious (i'm a hairdresser)they can often be nosey and mean and don't seem to see me as a women with emotions... my job is to make them feel wonderful about themselves and that's all there is to it. try to be gentle with yourself and give yourself whatever time you need. i'll be thinkiing of you on my first day back at work
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I just went back to work this week...it was so hard. I too was miserable before I left. I seriously considered finding another place to work instead of going back...I have decided to stick it out. I am planning on doing IVF again in Dec/Jan and am hoping that I can leave work again...almost imedietaly! For the time being I am trying so hard to be strong. You need to do what is right for you. If you need more time try to get it, if you can't handle it go to your boss or see about a transfer. Life is too short to be miserable. Good luck.
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