It is the end of the school year. I have a friend who is a student who is moving away in a few days. She invited me to her house with a couple other friends to have dinner and say goodbye. I have no desire to go.*sigh* then I feel bad because I know it is the last time I"ll see her. My husband tells me I should just not go, set healthy boundaries, and don't do what I don't feel like doing. It is just more complicated than that... or maybe it isn't. It is hard when others don't understand. That is the thing, i'm afraid this friend won't understand, and she'll be hurt. But if I go and I'm already feeling drained... I just can't, and I have to accept that. Why is it so hard making these decisions?
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