I had a miscarriage in August and I still find it hard to deal with it. I didnt have a D&C and went through actual labor with the pains and all. I never want to go through that again. I did make a little music box and wrote letters, even my husband wrote one too. We have an ornament that hanges on our tree and we both find ourselves thinking about our baby often. I have been finding myself in small times of depresson and I am quick to yell and cry. I just get very down and out when anything reminds of what would have been. I do pray and find myself hurting still and I know that is a greiving process but it just never seems to ease, it is a little lighter but I still have a hard time with it. Does the pain ever cease or is it ment to? I am not sure. I hoep that this helps other who feel the same as me. God Bless!
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