
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I had a miscarriage last week and I am having a really hard time with it. One of the hardest things at the current moment is dealing with other women who are pregnant and babies. My sister is 4 weeks ahead of where I should be in my pregnancy. We were so excited to go through pregnancy together and then have children the same age. Now I can hardly stand to be around her. It hurts to bad. I can't imagine what it will be like when she actually has the baby. I also can't handle being around babies. I hate that something that used to bring me such joy now makes me so sad. Also, it drives me CRAZY when I hear pregnant women complain about being pregnant. I would die to have morning sickness and backaches and everthing else that comes along with pregnancy. I wish they would be more grateful that they are pregnant. I know it's my thing to deal with and I try to not let it bother me but I'm not being very successful at it. Any advice?
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