i, like another member here am too dealing with insensitivity and it hurts me. i was crying again in front of my children and husband as i realized that not only my mom but my OB has done a s***** job of taking care of me, calling me or preparing me for what i just had to go through. HELL. my mom has tried to be kind but tells me "this could happen again be prepared you will need to know why", or she says tonight in the middle of our conversation "quit calling it a baby, it wasn't". and the typical comments like God's will, blah, blah. my Ob has done nothing for me, only her office staff and even the appropriate people aren't helping me and the one that did told my husband today that they never said i was miscarrying, even though i just went through three days of heavy bleeding, cramping and clotting. the girl i spoke to in the same office on friday told me i was and to take care of myself, told me to take pain meds, etc. they aren't even communicating to one another. i was told one thing friday and today they are trying to tell me they don't know?? what!!!!???? i just grieved all weekend. i had HCG levels of 70, what the **** are they thinking. all this insensitivity, all this miscommunication. ever since i started miscarrying a week ago, not one medical professional can give me a straight, honest answer, i just got myself through my own miscarriage by boards like these, reading the web and getting educated, with no help from one freakin dr. i am so upset, depressed and disgusted with the people around me. i have so much anger.
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