Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
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I am noew to this site and I wanted to share my story. I am 33 years old and got married last fall to the most wonderful man in the world.(Well in my eyes anyways)I have 4 children from two previos relationships and my current husband and I recently decied to start trying to have a baby of our own. Well, I got pregnant right off the rip and I WAS SOOOOOOOO EXCITED. I told many people. Everything was going great. My doctor was monitoring my HCG levels because I have a set of twins and she wanted to make sure that this was just one (It was). Anyway, my husband and I went in to have a routine u/s, we were so excited to see our baby for the first time. Well, there was no heartbeat and the baby was measuring a week benind what I should have been (I was supposed to be 7 weeks and the baby was measuring 6 weeks). The doctor then came in and said that I had a very rare cesarean section scar ectopic pregnancy and it was actaully better that the baby had died because I would not have been able to carry this baby to term. I was so upset. I waited until I got out of there and balled my eyes out. I am not three weeks after the fact and am still bleeding and my HCG levels are lingering in the 300's. I am so tired of being sad and having puffy eyes. I just want this to be over with so that I can try to again have a baby. Anyone been through a similar tradgedy?
I am noew to this site and I wanted to share my story. I am 33 years old and got married last fall to the most wonderful man in the world.(Well in my eyes anyways)I have 4 children from two previos relationships and my current husband and I recently decied to start trying to have a baby of our own. Well, I got pregnant right off the rip and I WAS SOOOOOOOO EXCITED. I told many people. Everything was going great. My doctor was monitoring my HCG levels because I have a set of twins and she wanted to make sure that this was just one (It was). Anyway, my husband and I went in to have a routine u/s, we were so excited to see our baby for the first time. Well, there was no heartbeat and the baby was measuring a week benind what I should have been (I was supposed to be 7 weeks and the baby was measuring 6 weeks). The doctor then came in and said that I had a very rare cesarean section scar ectopic pregnancy and it was actaully better that the baby had died because I would not have been able to carry this baby to term. I was so upset. I waited until I got out of there and balled my eyes out. I am not three weeks after the fact and am still bleeding and my HCG levels are lingering in the 300's. I am so tired of being sad and having puffy eyes. I just want this to be over with so that I can try to again have a baby. Anyone been through a similar tradgedy?
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I have had three miscarraiges and I can relate to crying all the time. I had one at 7 weeks and one shortly after I found out I was pregnant. My hcg wouldn't come down with the one at 7 weeks so I had a d&c and the bleeding quit soon after.
pattijo
im so sorry to hear that sad news. i had a c-section with my son and always wondered if that couldve had something to do with my 2 m/cs last year. what exactly happened, was the baby growing IN the scar? im so sorry.
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