
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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How do you stop yourself from thinking about this. Our first baby was due on Christmas day- we lost it on Mother's day. I was doing ok for awhile, but now all I do is think about this baby. Just thinking in a couple of weeks we should have been parents...what would the baby have looked like?...why did this happen? I don't understand...and it seems like lately there have been so many articles and newsclips of people abusing or killing their babies- it just makes me sick. Why can't all of us that want a baby so bad have one, yet God gives these other people babies and they don't appreciate them. I just don't get it. All of my friends and family are either pregnant or have kids and it just seems like the holidays make it worse. Everything is kid centered and it just hurts. Don't get me wrong I love kids and it should be kid centered it just hurts. How does everyone deal with this?????
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If you haven't talked to a therapist, it may be very healing as well. If you need to talk, please talk to us, we are all here for you! I've found a lot of healing just in this website. I hope you have a peaceful Christmas. God bless and I am soo soo sorry for your loss.
One way that helped me get through the holidays was to dedicate our christmas tree to our little girl and now it is our "Angel tree." The lights are all white and there are angel ornaments all over it. We add an ornament for our son each year as he grows up and also an ornament for the baby we just lost. I know that doing this the first year gave me something to focus my energy on and I felt proud that it was "her" tree. Just a suggestion. Hang in there, the due dates are tough.